I'm going to come right out and say it: I don't think anyone has one single life purpose.
I truly believe that we come here with multiple goals and multiple paths for our soul's growth. So relax. If you just graduated college (like me) and have yet to find your dream job...it's okay.
In high school they often make you choose one career path for the rest of your life, and I truly think this is boring, self-limiting and old-school.
I'm the girl who chose not one but three subjects to study in University. I had so many people tell me that I would never find a job, but I chose not to listen to them...
We are limitless souls in a human body. Your needs, experiences and life path will change according to your choice and free will. (If you want to know how I know this, finish reading until the very end.)
In every moment you are creating your life with your thoughts, intentions and emotions.
Here are some ways you can know you are on the path to your life purpose even if it doesn't seem like it:
1. You meet your soul family/group
You know those people you meet for the first time and you just instantly connect? It's almost like meeting an old friend?
They are a part of your soul family.
We have pre-destined soul contracts with people and places that we set up before coming into this life.
The people in your soul group are meant to help you, guide you and be there for you during your life. They often inspire change in you and they often shake you up. Their souls don't want to keep you in a limited version of yourself, so you will often trigger all the negative baggage from one another.
I think it's safe to say that they aren't always peaceful connections, but you know that you're on your soul path when you run into these kindred souls in your day to day life.
2. You have an Identity Crisis
One day you want to be a writer, the next a chef. The next day you want to be a travel blogger....you're probably all over the place in terms of deciding who you want to be.
That is totally okay and totally acceptable. You are not alone in feeling this way.
In fact, if you feel this way, it is a good indication that you're mind is trying to sort through all of the jobs that are not for you.
When we ask for growth and change, the first hurdles that come up to be cleared are our identification to "false masks."
When you were growing up you absorbed all the opinions and ideas of others. When you start to shed these ideas you have to rummage through them like a pile of garbage in your mind to get to the diamond at the bottom.
But you will get there. Through inspired action and internal searching, it will become clear when the time is right.
3. Life becomes hard, like really hard
But here is the catch: life doesn't have to be hard. Going after your multiple reasons for existence doesn't have to be a burden.
Once you ease into the idea that you are the creator of your life, you can relax into the realization that all you are is creating all you have.
When life gets hard it is a blessing. You have the strength to power through. You wouldn't be going through it if your soul was a pussy. You are no pussy soul. You are a warrior.
4. You realize that living your life purpose is easier than you think
Here is a little secret: if you are alive then you are living your life purpose.
Purpose is how you live your life everyday. It's your soul's energetic signature.
Are you true to you? Do you say no when you want to? Do you smile at strangers? Do you do whatever the hell you want to do? etc. etc...
Then you are living your life purpose.
My spiritual gifts allow me to tune into the energetic signature of people's souls and where there soul is wanting to go next.
I never ever ever get a soul read on someone where there soul is like: "I hate where I am. This sucks. This life sucks...I want out."
(When I talk about the "soul" it's not their mind or their opinion of their life. It's their inherent soul frequency and vibration.)
In fact, it is quite the opposite. Our soul is made of love, compassion and understanding.
When I connect with souls who have crossed over, no matter what hardships they have faced in their lifetime on Earth, they are always so grateful for their growth and full of overwhelming joy.
Their soul views all situations as great and for their highest good.
Our human mind makes things way more complicated than it needs to be.
So next time you are overthinking what next steps to take, just trust that your soul is a lot easier on you than you are on yourself...
Sending you love and light xoxo,