I'm going to come right out and say it: I don't think anyone has one single life purpose.
I truly believe that we come here with multiple goals and multiple paths for our soul's growth. So relax. If you just graduated college (like me) and have yet to find your dream job...it's okay.
In high school they often make you choose one career path for the rest of your life, and I truly think this is boring, self-limiting and old-school.
I'm the girl who chose not one but three subjects to study in University. I had so many people tell me that I would never find a job, but I chose not to listen to them...
We are limitless souls in a human body. Your needs, experiences and life path will change according to your choice and free will. (If you want to know how I know this, finish reading until the very end.)
In every moment you are creating your life with your thoughts, intentions and emotions.
Here are some ways you can know you are on the path to your life purpose even if it doesn't seem like it:
1. You meet your soul family/group
You know those people you meet for the first time and you just instantly connect? It's almost like meeting an old friend?
They are a part of your soul family.
We have pre-destined soul contracts with people and places that we set up before coming into this life.
The people in your soul group are meant to help you, guide you and be there for you during your life. They often inspire change in you and they often shake you up. Their souls don't want to keep you in a limited version of yourself, so you will often trigger all the negative baggage from one another.
I think it's safe to say that they aren't always peaceful connections, but you know that you're on your soul path when you run into these kindred souls in your day to day life.
2. You have an Identity Crisis
One day you want to be a writer, the next a chef. The next day you want to be a travel blogger....you're probably all over the place in terms of deciding who you want to be.
That is totally okay and totally acceptable. You are not alone in feeling this way.
In fact, if you feel this way, it is a good indication that you're mind is trying to sort through all of the jobs that are not for you.
When we ask for growth and change, the first hurdles that come up to be cleared are our identification to "false masks."
When you were growing up you absorbed all the opinions and ideas of others. When you start to shed these ideas you have to rummage through them like a pile of garbage in your mind to get to the diamond at the bottom.
But you will get there. Through inspired action and internal searching, it will become clear when the time is right.
3. Life becomes hard, like really hard
But here is the catch: life doesn't have to be hard. Going after your multiple reasons for existence doesn't have to be a burden.
Once you ease into the idea that you are the creator of your life, you can relax into the realization that all you are is creating all you have.
When life gets hard it is a blessing. You have the strength to power through. You wouldn't be going through it if your soul was a pussy. You are no pussy soul. You are a warrior.
4. You realize that living your life purpose is easier than you think
Here is a little secret: if you are alive then you are living your life purpose.
Purpose is how you live your life everyday. It's your soul's energetic signature.
Are you true to you? Do you say no when you want to? Do you smile at strangers? Do you do whatever the hell you want to do? etc. etc...
Then you are living your life purpose.
My spiritual gifts allow me to tune into the energetic signature of people's souls and where there soul is wanting to go next.
I never ever ever get a soul read on someone where there soul is like: "I hate where I am. This sucks. This life sucks...I want out."
(When I talk about the "soul" it's not their mind or their opinion of their life. It's their inherent soul frequency and vibration.)
In fact, it is quite the opposite. Our soul is made of love, compassion and understanding.
When I connect with souls who have crossed over, no matter what hardships they have faced in their lifetime on Earth, they are always so grateful for their growth and full of overwhelming joy.
Their soul views all situations as great and for their highest good.
Our human mind makes things way more complicated than it needs to be.
So next time you are overthinking what next steps to take, just trust that your soul is a lot easier on you than you are on yourself...
Sending you love and light xoxo,
I'm super excited to start to post weekly podcasts here on my blog.
My intention for this podcast is to share even more information to help you grow in your life. I truly believe that this information should be accessible to anyone and everyone.
The first episode is all about codependency and how we can heal this energetic pattern to have more fulfilling relationships and a deeper connection to self.
Most people deal with codependency and have no idea that it is a pattern in their lives. I know that learning to acknowledge this pattern in my own life helped me so much!
If you have any questions or topic suggestions for future podcasts send me a message to my e-mail: email@example.com
I hope you enjoy!
Love and light xoxo,
Just recently I created a little starter guide on how I was able to change my life little by little every day.
I know how important these tips are, and so I wanted to share them with you!
In this guide I give you applicable and easy tips on how to feel more content in your life and live the life you desire. AND it's totally FREE!!!! 😀
Some of you may think: "These tips are so general and easy. How can they change my life?"
Yes, they are simple and easy. But they hold the power to open you up to realize that only you hold the power to change your life.
When I started eating better, giving my body rest, meditation and exercise, my entire vibration rose. I was able to think clearer, attract better and over-all live a more fulfilling life. My relationships changed to reflect the self-love I was giving myself. My life got easier!
Now, this isn't to say that I'm never sad or have a bad day. We are humans. But now, the bad days or the sadness don't last as long and I'm able to see the gift of transformation they give me.
I wrote this little guide, because I believe everyone has the right to this information.
I make it easy and break it down day by day so it's easier to follow and stick to.
For it to become part of your routine you have to make time for yourself everyday. You cannot give to others from a cup that is not full. Put yourself first and watch your life flourish before your eyes!
I also want to point out that this guide is simply a starting place and it is not comprehensive. I plan on releasing more free materials throughout the year.
The link to download the document is below.
Comment below if you try it and how you feel during the process. I would love to hear from you! You can also reach me at my e-mail: firstname.lastname@example.org
I hope you have a wonderful start to your week!
Love and light xoxo,
A couple weeks ago I had completely given up hope and decided that the only option to heal my skin for good was Accutane (Roaccutane.)
In the United States it can be quite a lengthy process to obtain the drug from a dermatologist, but here in France it was still a process: but much simpler.
I was handed the leaflet in French and told to read over all the possible side-effects. I read it, but I simply thought: "I want clear skin so badly, I'm not worried about getting any side effects. My mom was fine, so I'll be fine too."
I started the treatment and my skin cleared up practically overnight. I stopped getting pimples. Within a week my skin was completely clear. After suffering for years, I was so excited about the results I could hardly believe it.
One day, about a week into the treatment, I woke up and felt funny. I had no desire to get out of bed. I had no desire to exercise, meditate, eat or even simply move.
Which if you know me, you know those are the many things I love to do! What was going on?
It was the first time in my life that I felt possibly a fraction of what people who suffer from depression feel.
My entire body ached. I felt sick to my stomach. I had no appetite to eat. My neck was extremely sore. My brain felt foggy and tired. I could hardly keep my eyes open for more than 3 minutes. It took so much energy to even just move around the house or get myself dressed for the day.
Then it all clicked. These were all side effects of Accutane.
I instantly called my doctor and she was shocked, but agreed it was not normal. She told me most people don't see side effects like mine until they were on a higher dosage. I was only on 25 mg. She told me to stop for a couple days and see how I felt.
I stopped and my symptoms went away. My doctor decided that my body just couldn't handle Accutane, but it had worked so well for me that I insisted to try again.
This time the effects were worse. I started slowly with the medication and my neck was feeling better, so I decided to take a dance class. The dance classes I take are quite hard core. They are for professionals and very fast paced. I didn't think anything of it.
I woke up the next morning after the dance class with the worse pain I have ever felt in my neck. I couldn't move. I didn't want to walk. It hurt so bad. My muscles in my neck were on fire. I was scared.
I went to the doctor and she knew exactly what was going on. She told me: "Any athletes like you should not be on Accutane. Accutane weakens muscles and joints and makes them more susceptible to injuries and tears." My eyes got wide.
"You need to stop this medication now. A dancer should not be on this." She told me.
Even though I didn't want to admit it, I knew it was true.
I had no grief about stopping the medication. Acne was nothing compared to how bad I felt and the pain I was enduring.
Sadly, I don't know when I'll be able to dance again, because necks take a very long time to heal.
If I would have known what this pill can really do, I never would have gone on it.
But I'm grateful for the experience, because no matter how painful, now I know that with or without acne we are all beautiful and worthy.
Acne is a symptom of something going on in the body. Accutane is a cover-up. It may cover up the problem for a while, but the problem still remains.
I'm not writing this article to scare anyone. This is simply my story. Every body is different, and I know that my body is very sensitive and always has been.
This time, I'm choosing to take a whole body, mind and soul approach.
I'm limiting my stress through daily meditation, yoga and journaling. I'm eating a 100% whole foods plant based diet where I've eliminated all foods that are heavily processed or trigger my acne.
I am more determined than ever to get to the root of this issue instead of searching for a band-aid.
This drug is serious.
I took it lightly and I shouldn't have. I'm now focusing on healing and getting better so that I can dance again.
Love and light xoxo